We
were excited about our brand new home, but not so much with our new sod and landscaping.
It struggled to survive the move. Of course, the 100-degree heatwave didn’t
help matters. The crux of the problem was transplant shock. Those green leafies
were traumatized by being uprooted from their comfortable setting and placed
into strange new surroundings.
We
did all we could to “love on” our greenies. We refreshed them frequently with
nourishing drinks of water. But even with the proper care, the bright green
leaves of grass, trees and plants dimmed to a straw-like gold. Transplant Trauma.
It
takes time and the proper care for transplants to adjust to new surroundings,
and then they snap out of the shock and turn green again.
I
know what it’s like to be a transplant, and perhaps you do too. You wonder how
it’s possible to prosper where you’re planted when you’re dealing with your own
version of transplant trauma. We didn’t get to stay in the hometown of our
childhood. No, God uprooted us. Took us from the comfort of what we knew and
loved, and moved us to a new area that needed us. God often sends us to parched
places—to rejuvenate others with refreshing green ministry.
Sometimes
it takes a while to get acclimated. We go through a period of transplant
trauma. Shock. The refreshingness of the lush green we offer others temporarily
turns to dry hay. With the right amount of time to adjust, and with the loving
care of our new surroundings, we green up again. It’s good to know it’s just a
temporary condition.
Sometimes
we come to a new place still grieving the loss of what we left behind. We bring
that trauma with us until we come to accept it. Other times, we are eager to
get started in the new ministry, but are confronted by the culture shock of the
new area. We adapt. We add the water of the Word, confirming our calling to our
new spot. We soak in the SONlight. We allow our Heavenly Master Gardener to tend
to our needs while we tend to the needs of others.
Are
you yearning to prosper where you’re planted? Repeat this phrase with me:
“Transplant trauma is temporary. God’s tender loving care is permanent.”
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Kathy Carlton Willis writes and speaks with a balance of funny and faith—whimsy
and wisdom. She shines the light on issues that hold readers back and inspires
lightbulb moments. Almost a thousand of Kathy’s articles have been published
and she’s written several books, including Grin with Grace and Speaker to Speaker: The Essential Speaker’s
Companion. She and husband Russ live in Texas with Jazzy, their hilarious
Boston terrier. Learn more at: www.kathycarltonwillis.com
2 comments:
Thanks for hosting me on your site! September is "Prosper Where You're Planted" month and I thought it would be helpful to readers to know about transplant trauma and how to overcome it in order to thrive. I know we all want to do better wherever our feet are planted, whether it's a location or a situation. Sometimes we don't start out liking it, but we can end up making it work! Thanks, Jenny for the guest post!
Thank you for your insights to help us cope with the pain of transition.
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